Many of us have had that problem in the past or we might we dealing with it right at the moment. Don't worry about them they are just jealous because they lost their treasure and you own it now!.
It might feel like they know a lot about them then you do, but that is why you are in a relationship to get to know each other ! Create ways to move closer to your love. You also might worry that the two of them will get back together again. It can all become confusing and difficult! No ! They won't ! Think for yourself. Why did they broke up in the first place . No one wants to read a book that they already know how it will end ! They will always be on the sideline just waiting for you to fail your relationship so they can make their move but let me tell you something why don't you focus on your relationship, show your love and there will be no bad endings ...
*Dedicated to Chante November( old School friend from Paarl )*
X0x0x
Letta
Thursday 31 May 2012
share a little love
You may not think others need your love and knowledge. There is so little loved shared that if you are spending it, people will be drawn to you because love is rare. One of the greatest things in life is having the ability to love and be loved. Don't expect love from cheap people!
Say whatever you need to say from your heart and you will be suprised by the reactions you get of others. You will also be surprised by the sense of peace and happiness that will be reflected on you when helping others. Not at that exact moment but later in the years it will. Train yourself to say everything with love ! Be happy even thought you sad from the inside , everything always starts with a smile then your mood changes ! So just smile and share a little love !
Letta!
Say whatever you need to say from your heart and you will be suprised by the reactions you get of others. You will also be surprised by the sense of peace and happiness that will be reflected on you when helping others. Not at that exact moment but later in the years it will. Train yourself to say everything with love ! Be happy even thought you sad from the inside , everything always starts with a smile then your mood changes ! So just smile and share a little love !
Letta!
Wednesday 30 May 2012
Why do Girls like bad boys ?
Girls like to feel safe when they are with someone and bad boys gives them that safety. Many good guys just can't stand the fact that , girls can be treated bad by the bad boys and still want them, and still run after them.
Let me tell you how our girls head's work:
We always go for the risky guys, because it's more fun to be with them. We get played by them cause we are too busy being in love and forget what's going on around us. We see the good in the bad that they have done wrong cause we love them. We would do anything just to be with them even though they hurted us in the past.
Now many boys ask me why did I get played I mean isn't it obvious? You too soft for her bro! Girls like guys that tells them what to do! How to dress! Girls loves it when a guy is sweet and nice yes, but not all the time ey. That is usually when you find that girls are cheating on boys. Girls usually ignore the one who adore them and love the ones who ignore them-cause for them it's a challenge to get that boy who is ignoring them. They can't accept why everyone else wants them but not that particular boy.
Sooo guys show them who wears the pants in the relationship and she will be yours forever!
-PLZ NOTE THAT IS MY OPINION
Letta
Let me tell you how our girls head's work:
We always go for the risky guys, because it's more fun to be with them. We get played by them cause we are too busy being in love and forget what's going on around us. We see the good in the bad that they have done wrong cause we love them. We would do anything just to be with them even though they hurted us in the past.
Now many boys ask me why did I get played I mean isn't it obvious? You too soft for her bro! Girls like guys that tells them what to do! How to dress! Girls loves it when a guy is sweet and nice yes, but not all the time ey. That is usually when you find that girls are cheating on boys. Girls usually ignore the one who adore them and love the ones who ignore them-cause for them it's a challenge to get that boy who is ignoring them. They can't accept why everyone else wants them but not that particular boy.
Sooo guys show them who wears the pants in the relationship and she will be yours forever!
-PLZ NOTE THAT IS MY OPINION
Letta
Tuesday 29 May 2012
" W O R D S "
Your mouth can be the most powerful weapon you can have. What you tell others wether it is good or bad people will always remember what you said. Be careful what you say to people. Think before you say something don't just Speak , Use some brain too !
I don't know how its possible that the good things someone tell you don't always pop up in your mind, but the bad things does ! We intend to say bad things to our closest friends , we may take it as a joke but they doesn't. It is actually sad when you look back and ask yourself... "When last did I give someone a compliment? "
So from today I want you to tell your friends you look pretty when they does! Just those three words will make their day!
Letta!
I don't know how its possible that the good things someone tell you don't always pop up in your mind, but the bad things does ! We intend to say bad things to our closest friends , we may take it as a joke but they doesn't. It is actually sad when you look back and ask yourself... "When last did I give someone a compliment? "
So from today I want you to tell your friends you look pretty when they does! Just those three words will make their day!
Letta!
Saturday 26 May 2012
Thursday 24 May 2012
Appreciate what you have!
Many intend to be unthankful for the things they have! They always want more even though they have the best. Their parents work 12 hours a day just to give them everything they want, but still they don't appreciate it.
About a month ago I was on a school camp in Tulbagh near a Children's home. We were about over 200 students we attendted the camp. We slept in the hostels of the school next to the children's home but we eated by them. While I was siting all alone by myself, some of them came to me asked me who I am and where I'm from etc. We had a long talk. They told me how life is by the children's home , about the aunty's who is always moody the food that's not so nice , but they have to eat cause they have no choice. They have no parents their parents don't want them. What Sad was for me is they have no one who really loves them. But still they find a way to get through this hard life. They don't even get new clothes they get second handed clothes by people who no longer want it. Still they appreciate what they have. They don't moan about the things we moan about. They are thankful for for whatever they get even they don't want it, but we are unthankful for the things we wanted. I've learned a lot by them over that weekend I've learned to appreaciate more what I have.
I still call and sms them from time to time, just to show that I care cause it won't hurt me ask me how they doing. That is probably all call they get.
Appreciate what you have there are many out there that can only dream of the things that you have
* * * When my internet is right I will upload a picture of me with them * * *
Letta
About a month ago I was on a school camp in Tulbagh near a Children's home. We were about over 200 students we attendted the camp. We slept in the hostels of the school next to the children's home but we eated by them. While I was siting all alone by myself, some of them came to me asked me who I am and where I'm from etc. We had a long talk. They told me how life is by the children's home , about the aunty's who is always moody the food that's not so nice , but they have to eat cause they have no choice. They have no parents their parents don't want them. What Sad was for me is they have no one who really loves them. But still they find a way to get through this hard life. They don't even get new clothes they get second handed clothes by people who no longer want it. Still they appreciate what they have. They don't moan about the things we moan about. They are thankful for for whatever they get even they don't want it, but we are unthankful for the things we wanted. I've learned a lot by them over that weekend I've learned to appreaciate more what I have.
I still call and sms them from time to time, just to show that I care cause it won't hurt me ask me how they doing. That is probably all call they get.
Appreciate what you have there are many out there that can only dream of the things that you have
* * * When my internet is right I will upload a picture of me with them * * *
Letta
Wednesday 23 May 2012
Your inner Wisdom
Trust Your instinct!
If you need to make a decision close your eyes and imagine yourself in both situations. The one which suits you the best will be the one you end up with. It will always be a 50/50 thing... You need to believe in yourself by making decisions. Be positive cause you know what you want in life. Follow the path you want to follow and not the path someone told you to.
You can Be right if you believe You are Right
Letta
If you need to make a decision close your eyes and imagine yourself in both situations. The one which suits you the best will be the one you end up with. It will always be a 50/50 thing... You need to believe in yourself by making decisions. Be positive cause you know what you want in life. Follow the path you want to follow and not the path someone told you to.
You can Be right if you believe You are Right
Letta
Monday 21 May 2012
State of Mind
In this life, bad things will happen. That is why you should make your problems challenges. You will open windows of oppertunities for yourself. How you see life is up to you... Its can be great if you choose so.
We hold the light tou our own destiny. If there is not enough joy in your life, life has very little meaning. So don't feel sorry for yourself. Making yourself happy is up to you ! . You're the one who has to make the good things happen; no one else is going to come knocking down your door to make you happy. If anyone told you life and the world out there is easy!, they were lying because its not! It takes hard work to make it easy yes!
Soooo stop moaning about what's wrong in your life. Moaning has never helped anyone! ! ! It takes time to train your mind to look for the positive, but it will come! Just keep thinking positive!
Letta
We hold the light tou our own destiny. If there is not enough joy in your life, life has very little meaning. So don't feel sorry for yourself. Making yourself happy is up to you ! . You're the one who has to make the good things happen; no one else is going to come knocking down your door to make you happy. If anyone told you life and the world out there is easy!, they were lying because its not! It takes hard work to make it easy yes!
Soooo stop moaning about what's wrong in your life. Moaning has never helped anyone! ! ! It takes time to train your mind to look for the positive, but it will come! Just keep thinking positive!
Letta
Some people think it's holding on that makes one strong but it's letting go that proves your strength
Many intend to hold on to something just because they are scared of what is going to happen next.I say let go! While you hold on to something you are stuck in one place can't move, but when you letting go you are finally on the move again... Holding on can keep you from all the good that is out there in the world, so let go and try something new maybe that something new is even more better
But then again the hardest part about moving on is not wanting to.
Letta
Many intend to hold on to something just because they are scared of what is going to happen next.I say let go! While you hold on to something you are stuck in one place can't move, but when you letting go you are finally on the move again... Holding on can keep you from all the good that is out there in the world, so let go and try something new maybe that something new is even more better
But then again the hardest part about moving on is not wanting to.
Letta
Friday 18 May 2012
Friend or Foe?
Nowadays you never know when u have a friend or whether that friend you think is a friend .. Is a Foe...
Everyone is so fake. Choose your friends wisely. Isn't it so ironic. The people in your life who say, "I'm always going to be here for you ", are the ones that walk away first. Sometimes we expect more from others, because we'd be willing to do much more for them; and as we grow older we don't lose friends, we just learn who the real ones are. I find it hard to trust people, because I never know if their fake or real . That is why I hate pretenders.
Not all your friends are fake. We all have good friends the ones we can trust but then again who says they are faithful towards you? Who says their not talking behind your back?...
You and only you can see true friends, you see through their minds and hearts you see what they desire and why they desire it.. If you have a good friend that is faithful be glad you have, because there are not many of them out there.
Letta
Everyone is so fake. Choose your friends wisely. Isn't it so ironic. The people in your life who say, "I'm always going to be here for you ", are the ones that walk away first. Sometimes we expect more from others, because we'd be willing to do much more for them; and as we grow older we don't lose friends, we just learn who the real ones are. I find it hard to trust people, because I never know if their fake or real . That is why I hate pretenders.
Not all your friends are fake. We all have good friends the ones we can trust but then again who says they are faithful towards you? Who says their not talking behind your back?...
You and only you can see true friends, you see through their minds and hearts you see what they desire and why they desire it.. If you have a good friend that is faithful be glad you have, because there are not many of them out there.
Letta
Thursday 17 May 2012
Jealousy
Taken literally, jealousy refers to a strong desire for someone else's stature or possessions. However, in a social setting, it causes someone to be doubtful of their partner and feel threatened by their interaction with certain people, the clothes they wear or the places they go
-that is what the dictionary says
Here is what I think about relationship jealousy.
We all get jealous when our partners get compliments by someone. Mostly this jealousy gets out of hand, then the relationships comes to an end. But you and your partner should trust each other enough not to let jealousy get you down. Give her space, give him his space. Talk about it if you and your partner have jealousy problems. Tell her/him why you get jealous so that she/he can understand.
Don't let jealousy be the cause of your break ups! Sort it out ! Make things right !
-that is what the dictionary says
Here is what I think about relationship jealousy.
We all get jealous when our partners get compliments by someone. Mostly this jealousy gets out of hand, then the relationships comes to an end. But you and your partner should trust each other enough not to let jealousy get you down. Give her space, give him his space. Talk about it if you and your partner have jealousy problems. Tell her/him why you get jealous so that she/he can understand.
Don't let jealousy be the cause of your break ups! Sort it out ! Make things right !
Tuesday 15 May 2012
why do we intend to forgive so easily?
In life we all get that feeling.. That's it I'm done, I've had enough I will not be able to do this! But that is the time when your real strenght is being tested. Your challenge that you had tested your strenght and how badly you wanted to win.
Many say it was too hard but when I look at it you were half way through it... Now you want to give up ... Whenever I felt like giving up I thought of why I held on in the first place, and that reason kept me going ! Let the reason you held on be the reason you reach your goal ! Because you and only you can do it ! You don't do it for your friend, parents teachers etc... You do it for you, your future , and for the dream you so badly want to make a reality !
Letta
Many say it was too hard but when I look at it you were half way through it... Now you want to give up ... Whenever I felt like giving up I thought of why I held on in the first place, and that reason kept me going ! Let the reason you held on be the reason you reach your goal ! Because you and only you can do it ! You don't do it for your friend, parents teachers etc... You do it for you, your future , and for the dream you so badly want to make a reality !
Letta
Monday 14 May 2012
Take that Risk!
I know we all like taking risks , because we don't want to be the odd one out in the group so we go with the flow. Sometimes we learn from it sometimes we don't.
Not all risks is bad, you get good risks to like; meeting new people or hanging out with people you thought was bad company just because you judged them by their looks! Risks is never good you never know where you might end up or what is going to happen at the end the only way you would know is by sticking to it till the end!
I think people should take more risks in life. In that way they will find out who they really are. So Don't be afraid to take chances or opportunities that comes your way!
Take that risk!
Letta
Not all risks is bad, you get good risks to like; meeting new people or hanging out with people you thought was bad company just because you judged them by their looks! Risks is never good you never know where you might end up or what is going to happen at the end the only way you would know is by sticking to it till the end!
I think people should take more risks in life. In that way they will find out who they really are. So Don't be afraid to take chances or opportunities that comes your way!
Take that risk!
Letta
Sunday 13 May 2012
Mother's Day!
Beacause its Mother's day today everyone's profile pictures and status's is about their mothers(even mine)... But I think everyday should be a mothers day, not just once a year. As you look at all the effort a mother has to put in, everything that she must do etc. She deserves to be spoiled everyday and not just once a year!Mothers would try their best just to make their children happy. They work hard buy their children expensive stuff that makes her have sleepless nights cause she is wondering how am I going to pay the bill next month. You sleep peaceful while she worries.
People I want you to spoil your mother Daily and not yearly! I want you to tell that you love her, hug her and spend time with her cause who knows what tomorrow brings, she might just not be with you anymore... Do the same with your father. They might be your most favourite people in the world, but if it wasn't for them you wouldn't have been in this world in the first place!
Letta
People I want you to spoil your mother Daily and not yearly! I want you to tell that you love her, hug her and spend time with her cause who knows what tomorrow brings, she might just not be with you anymore... Do the same with your father. They might be your most favourite people in the world, but if it wasn't for them you wouldn't have been in this world in the first place!
Letta
Poem By Doniel Kelly
Fresh morning fresh hopes, fresh plans fresh efforts, fresh success fresh feelings and also FRESH years to go, I wish u a fresh & successful mother's day, so that the shadow of yesterday may fade away and that the lord's light shine on you 2day, coz its a brand new day' birds singing their song loud & clear, announcing to the world that a blessing throught this woman is here, so by God I'm wishing you contentment and peace along the way on this heavenly blessed mother's day
-Doniel Kelly
-Doniel Kelly
Thursday 10 May 2012
Forgive others in order to forgive yourself
It is so much easier to walk away from a hurtful past than to confront the issues, but we cannot remove the past from our hearts... It is there to stay. The only hope for true peace with the past is to face it at its worst, forgive to be forgiven. If you don't forgive it won't go away it will stay there forever and if you don't forgive you will never move on from your past... You will always have a hold on it!
Forgive to have peace!
Letta
Forgive to have peace!
Letta
Wednesday 9 May 2012
Be a Star that stands out among all the others
Yes! Be a S T A R !
Shine bright! Make them see you clearly!
I don't know if you noticed among all those thousands of stars , there are actually just three that stands out(From my point of view)... Peole called them the three sisters!whenever I look at the stars I usually look for them. They stand In line with each other... The others always seems to look the same, same size etc.. But you can easily notice the three sisters.
What I really wanted to tell you is: be like that and stand out among all the others next to you. Shine bright. Make people aware of who and what you are and what you are capable of. Life is full of challenges, challenges that you have to face.Be the best you can be. There is only one You!No one thinks or acts the same that you so! You are unique that's why you should stand out in the croud!...You are special, you are perfect... You are special...Want to know why cause God Don't not make Junk !
Be a star!
Letta!
Shine bright! Make them see you clearly!
I don't know if you noticed among all those thousands of stars , there are actually just three that stands out(From my point of view)... Peole called them the three sisters!whenever I look at the stars I usually look for them. They stand In line with each other... The others always seems to look the same, same size etc.. But you can easily notice the three sisters.
What I really wanted to tell you is: be like that and stand out among all the others next to you. Shine bright. Make people aware of who and what you are and what you are capable of. Life is full of challenges, challenges that you have to face.Be the best you can be. There is only one You!No one thinks or acts the same that you so! You are unique that's why you should stand out in the croud!...You are special, you are perfect... You are special...Want to know why cause God Don't not make Junk !
Be a star!
Letta!
Tuesday 8 May 2012
Monday 7 May 2012
I Have a D R E A M.... Do YOU?
I have a dream!
My dream seems to be the only Reason why I wake up in the morning.Sometimes I feel like giving up then I think about how far I've come to leave everything just like that. There is not a day that goes by , that I don't remind myself of my dream!
Many say I don't have the money... People tell me this:do you need money to dream?No! So what are you waiting for. Your Future starts with a dream and ends with Reality!No Dream is too big or too small if you believe! If you dream make sure that it is realistic!...
Remember don't spend most of your time dreaming and doing nothing to make the dream reality! Make sure you put everything in!I walk with a plan in my head everyday! I know where I am going! Do you?... You should ask yourself where do I see myself 5 years from now... Make sure you have goals that you want to achieve!Life aint all about partying! There is a time and a place for everything in this life.
Think about it! And ask yourself questions daily! It helps...
I have a dream ... Do you?...
Letta
My dream seems to be the only Reason why I wake up in the morning.Sometimes I feel like giving up then I think about how far I've come to leave everything just like that. There is not a day that goes by , that I don't remind myself of my dream!
Many say I don't have the money... People tell me this:do you need money to dream?No! So what are you waiting for. Your Future starts with a dream and ends with Reality!No Dream is too big or too small if you believe! If you dream make sure that it is realistic!...
Remember don't spend most of your time dreaming and doing nothing to make the dream reality! Make sure you put everything in!I walk with a plan in my head everyday! I know where I am going! Do you?... You should ask yourself where do I see myself 5 years from now... Make sure you have goals that you want to achieve!Life aint all about partying! There is a time and a place for everything in this life.
Think about it! And ask yourself questions daily! It helps...
I have a dream ... Do you?...
Letta
The Prayer
"I pray you'll be our eyes and watch us where we go.
And help us to be wise in times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer when we lose our way
Lead us to the place guide us with your grace
To a place where we'll be safe"
-This is one of my songs I listen to when I feel sad!
And help us to be wise in times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer when we lose our way
Lead us to the place guide us with your grace
To a place where we'll be safe"
-This is one of my songs I listen to when I feel sad!
Sunday 6 May 2012
take time to think !
So eskom switched our electricity off. Now everyone is moaning about it on the local social network that goes by the name "facebook". The real reason why they really moan is because their phones are about to die,and we can't charge it!
We have soo many things in this world whom is soo beautiful,but because we sit with our phones every second of the day we forget about those things.
The house is now very quiet, no one speaks because they have nothing to talk about. They can't remember when last they had a good conversation with their parents!Me on the other hand lays on my bed thinking of the days when you didn't have a phone, and what I used to do back then!Sometimes I feel like giving my phone aways just to see who is really there for me, cause everyone seems to care over the phone but when you see them in public they can't hardly greet you(hate people who is like that!)
Back to the electricity!-its on now ! Lol ! Surely everyone is happy now...
Learn to socialize without your phone being involved! Go out meet some new friends and avoid being on your phone in a company!#thatsouncool!
Keep on checking my posts! LoL
Letta!
We have soo many things in this world whom is soo beautiful,but because we sit with our phones every second of the day we forget about those things.
The house is now very quiet, no one speaks because they have nothing to talk about. They can't remember when last they had a good conversation with their parents!Me on the other hand lays on my bed thinking of the days when you didn't have a phone, and what I used to do back then!Sometimes I feel like giving my phone aways just to see who is really there for me, cause everyone seems to care over the phone but when you see them in public they can't hardly greet you(hate people who is like that!)
Back to the electricity!-its on now ! Lol ! Surely everyone is happy now...
Learn to socialize without your phone being involved! Go out meet some new friends and avoid being on your phone in a company!#thatsouncool!
Keep on checking my posts! LoL
Letta!
Saturday 5 May 2012
Mi Casa, Su Casa!
"My Huis, Jou Huis"
"My Home, Your Home"
Its important when you invite people over just to hang, that you should make them feel comfortable! No one wants to be in a boring company. Don't bring up boring topics that only you can talk about!(That's sooo uncool!)Learn more by the people that is in your company, ask them questions about themselves.
Someone once asked me:"How do you get it right keeping a company going, and just start talking to people you just met?" I replied saying:"Meeting new people is one of the best things you can do in life. You get to learn more of their lifestyle,how they do things etc"
I just love meeting new people!
Letta
"My Home, Your Home"
Its important when you invite people over just to hang, that you should make them feel comfortable! No one wants to be in a boring company. Don't bring up boring topics that only you can talk about!(That's sooo uncool!)Learn more by the people that is in your company, ask them questions about themselves.
Someone once asked me:"How do you get it right keeping a company going, and just start talking to people you just met?" I replied saying:"Meeting new people is one of the best things you can do in life. You get to learn more of their lifestyle,how they do things etc"
I just love meeting new people!
Letta
Michael Buble
I love Michael Buble's Music! It is sooo inspiring and it keeps me Calm! He only sings the truth and what life is about!
Thursday 3 May 2012
C R Y I NG !
Its important to cry!You need to let go of your Problems or sometimes happiness! Its important that when you cry its worth crying for, Don't cry over people who is not worth your tears! Rather smile and get dimpels!
I Don't usually cry , I find it hard to cry infront of people! I always used to think that crying doesn't solve anything,till one day when I found myself crying. I felt a bit refreshed and happy afterwards! Sooo people Cry just a little! It helps !
Letta!
I Don't usually cry , I find it hard to cry infront of people! I always used to think that crying doesn't solve anything,till one day when I found myself crying. I felt a bit refreshed and happy afterwards! Sooo people Cry just a little! It helps !
Letta!
Wednesday 2 May 2012
You're a Beautiful Person
Everyone needs to be told they're great, so here's To You an Exceptionally beautiful person !
The beauty of a person is not in the clothes they wear , the firgure they carry, or the way they comb their hair. The beauty of a person is not seen with the eyes , but throught they eyes, because this is the doorway to your heart, the place where love resides.True beauty is reflected in the soul. It is all about caring, lving and sharing and showing.Beauty is not in the looks , its in the heart deep inside!
Letta!
The beauty of a person is not in the clothes they wear , the firgure they carry, or the way they comb their hair. The beauty of a person is not seen with the eyes , but throught they eyes, because this is the doorway to your heart, the place where love resides.True beauty is reflected in the soul. It is all about caring, lving and sharing and showing.Beauty is not in the looks , its in the heart deep inside!
Letta!
Tuesday 1 May 2012
Share your S M I L E
Whenever I feel stressed, depressed or just lost in my thoughts and someone strange gives me a sinple smile, My whole day brightens. Now I do it Back. If someone looks lost, confused or sad I offer a smile, it cost u nothing.
Whenever you see someone feeling down, go ask how are you, is there something I can do to help... Just by asking that, that person know that you care for them.
Share things that money can't buy and you will see the world will be a better place!
Letta
Whenever you see someone feeling down, go ask how are you, is there something I can do to help... Just by asking that, that person know that you care for them.
Share things that money can't buy and you will see the world will be a better place!
Letta
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